To all. I sent the message yesterday (Australian time) "I miss you so much W".
Simple, short, but needed to do it.
I was expecting or prepared for 3 options:
1. No reply
2. A nice reply
3. An angry reply

So far 24hrs later, number 1 is in the lead. Maybe the W is applying the 48hr rule. It was expected. But at least I did it.

I will continue being dark now, unless something magically happens.


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.