To all. I sent the message yesterday (Australian time) "I miss you so much W". Simple, short, but needed to do it. I was expecting or prepared for 3 options: 1. No reply 2. A nice reply 3. An angry reply
So far 24hrs later, number 1 is in the lead. Maybe the W is applying the 48hr rule. It was expected. But at least I did it.
I will continue being dark now, unless something magically happens.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
Forgot to add: 4. New phone number - which I don't know 5. Friend saw message first and cancelled it - have felt that has happened a few times before.
Only 9 days till I find out if I transfer back to the city.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
Numbers 4-5 are the same as No1. You have sent the message, thinking more about won't change the outcome, let it be.
You got any GAL going on?
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
T1000, actually sending the message help me move the rollercoaster up the hill today. Don't worry not thinking much about the message, just thought I would add #4 and 5. GAL? Still running every day, guitar playing as well (trying to learn Stand By Me), gym every 2nd day or so. Went out and bought takeaway tonight, first time for many, many months. Pigged out really well. This Friday night our school is doing it's annual fete. I will be manning the dunk-a-teacher, where if the ball is thrown and hits the target, I go for a swim. Otherwise, the next best GAL is holidays in less than two weeks, where I am going down to Melbourne with an old school friend. Then back to Brisbane for the last week and hopefully some good time with my boys.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
Sounds like your a busy guy. How long have you been playing guitar?
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
Started about May I think. Decided it would calm me down (it does) and also hope to play a few romantic songs if I ever need to. Jason Mraz "I won't give up on you". I am busy at times, but still most of it is solo stuff. Not much going on here with group stuff. That's why I need to get back to the city, hopefully by the end of this year. Back to motorbike riding, friends, fun run's and half marathons, most importantly my boys.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
To all. I sent the message yesterday (Australian time) "I miss you so much W". Simple, short, but needed to do it.
I'm curious why you felt you needed to do that, was it so that you can reassure yourself that your W doesn't care about you and it will help you move on? I'm sure you've read enough stuff around here to know you weren't going to get a fond response from your W telling you that she misses you too and inviting you out for a nice heartfelt relationship discussion over dinner
lol Wonka HWA, I'm not going to send you a 2x4 on this I know that you're already applying GAL, 180 and PMA. I understand why you had to do it. Just lately my H is confusing me with what he says. Yesterday he said that someone we both know said I looked happy. I ignored this, but along with me saying to him "I'm not bothered who you see now", will probably make him think I've moved on. I've felt like sending a text saying "I still miss you" just to affirm that I am still waiting for him. I haven't as yet and I don't intend to but I've thought about it. I'm just going to see what happens at the mo as I believe he may be turning a corner, but I could be wrong! Even if you don't get a reply or a hateful answer, at least you know where you stand You've probably mentioned this before, but does your W live in the city as well as your two boys? If so there'll be plenty more opportunities and interactions with her. We've all been there at some point and we've all made mistakes so I know that you'll just put this behind you as just one of those things!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
