You may not believe this broba, but, my X called the police on me 3 times for bs trying to either get me thrown out of our house or to force me to bring the kids back from a playdate. All failed. However, today, my XW and I can sit at a table together or, let her put my name down as a reference for a job application (you don't want your ex to fail as much as many in the death throes of divorce feel when they are here).
Time....is what you need...although I know it goes very slowly now. Build a new life, as painful as it can be sometimes. It WILL get better. Get the D done.
Finally, I may be wrong, but there are times when I think my ex thinks she made a mistake, but don't waste time hoping for that. Don't wait for the ship to come in. Row out to meet it. FIB
I don't want her to fail, well most days I don't lol. I'm healing though. She is doing things that I don't agree with, and honestly if she was a decent person she wouldn't be doing. If she was a decent person we wouldn't be getting a divorce..... FIB and Subguy you both have a way of putting things that is making my ability to let go a bit easier. I know that I tend to pull it back but reading your posts is honestly helping me.
Thanks -Brobafet
Me 32 W 30 Married 11 D10, S6 BD#1 January of 09 OM#1 2005 OM#2 Dec 08 OM#3 March/April of 09 Back together August 09 OM#4 May 13 W moves out June 2013 BD#2 June 21 2013 Filed July 2013 D final in Oct
