rH!!! Wow all the pros chiming in today. I think the pressure is part me (the finances talk), and part S6, and mostly her. S6 will hardly stay at her place and begs her to come home and do stuff with us. That has to gnaw at her.

I truly feel as if I've done all I can to GAL. I'm having the best time with my boys. I've found pure joy in coaching. I'm in the best shape I've been in in 10 years.

The people on this board continually amaze me. Thanks to you all.

M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later