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[Cadet]

If I were to truly "let go" to me it would mean moving on and finding someone else. Does that make sense?

So you need another person to let her go?

No that does not make sense.

As far as filing for separation, I would let her do that work, I would not do it for her.

But Letting Go means that you love her enough to let her carry out her choices and feelings.

Re-read what she wrote to you

So stop worrying about us.
Stop worrying in general.
Don't wait for me.
Have fun.
Enjoy life.
Open doors.
Make new friendships.
Live in the present like it's your last day on Earth, because it could be!

She is saying GAL, detach, LetGO

I am saying - Show her that you are going to be OK no matter what she chooses to do.

Dont say sanything to her - speak with ACTIONS.

Does that help?