MP, thought I would pop over and see your sitch. I am in agreement with TTD180 about the meals and everything else you do for him. You need to stop it, now. If you don't like going out for dinner (buying meals)each night, then make some at home, put them in a container and go eat somewhere else. Even if it is the local park. Sounds horrible I know, but the H will start to get the message. Basically he is eating his cake. The talk is all WAS typical behaviour. Thankfully my W is the opposite with no talk, but sometimes I wish she did complain/yell at me. Start with the meals, first, try it for a week. See what difference is does/doesn't make.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
