Woohoo busting is rocking!!! you sound great. It is amazing the change in our attitude, when we realize that we have to power to choose to be calm and okay with ourselves. I never truly understood the meaning of "choose to be happy" or "choose to allow people to push our buttons".
I am happy for you, keep rocking on.
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.