Separated, D filed, possible emotional affair

[labug]

Jon, my point is that you knowingly didn't answer the phone when you had her kids. You did it it would seem to teach her a lesson. You're not here to fix her, I would assume like most of us you're here to improve yourself and maybe save your marriage.

Is she not responding to you when she has your children?

You can defend all you want but it doesn't change the behavior.

Stop keeping score.