Wonka thank you so much for this! I will copy it to my "Wonka's Advice" file. But how do we know when the MLCer is starting to come out of the tunnel?
When they start to put their replay antics behind and start to slowly reconnect with their spouses. Self-discovery and questioning on their part is a key part of the integration process as evidenced by rH's H, Raine's H, and T's W.
And their eyes. They start to become more focused, engaged and normal...not the the numb & fogged up look they have while in the midst of their MLC.
