So if you knew all that about her going in, why are you now surprised at the direction this has taken? To a casual observer it seems you're blaming your W for decisions you made. You knew she had a lot of debt, you married her. You knew she didn't really want to have children, you married her. You resented her lifestyle, you married her.
Have you split finances?
I don't think you answered the question, Do you love your W?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
