JonF its funny that your timeline is similar to mine. She may have said she wants divorce, but wait until you actually get paperwork from her. If you give her space and don't offend her or anything she may wind up reconsidering.
T 10 years, M 4 years, both 28 years old 7/3/2013 - W wanted D, we attempted to reconcile 7/20/2013 - discovered W's EA, attempted to reconcile 8/24/2013 - W told me she wanted D, filed papers
