Today H dropped by, hopefully roof will not leak anymore.
Gave him story about S17, he agreed with the whole "not wandering off when you've been drinking and telling no one" thing.
Also, H said that he wanders if I would be willing to switch places if I get a job in city next year. That he would be more able to do repairs than me around the house. He would move permanently here and I would be in city. Probably with S17, if I had job there. He mentioned that I could pay off debts, cheaper to live and he could have a couple years with D14 before she is off to school.
I said I would not discount anything in terms of jobs and arrangements, that we could discuss all the permutations should the discussion arise.
Personally, I want move back together ( lol)
But thoughts on this?
I have no idea myself
He did mention he would set up house the way he liked lol, but was okay with colours I painted the bedroom (you have to understand, H is not a colour guy and I painted blue ) which was a big admission, believe it or not, on his part.
I have pros and cons to both scenarios....my favourite scenario is that we share the two spaces, city and country :))
