As for work, we don't have kids and we split housework evenly. Her free time is spent mostly going out with friends or doing volunteer projects. On average she worked under 40 hours a week at her job (high hourly rate but they don't want to pay benefits).


T 10 years, M 4 years, both 28 years old
7/3/2013 - W wanted D, we attempted to reconcile
7/20/2013 - discovered W's EA, attempted to reconcile
8/24/2013 - W told me she wanted D, filed papers