Hi labug, we were having an argument where she was screaming and crying about how much she hated her job, and nobody understood how awful it was. I tried to talk to her about it for a long time before she kept insisting she was going to walk in and quit, and in the heat of the moment I said "if you quit your job I will divorce you" since I did not want her to quit her job while she was so emotional.
I apologized later and told her I said it out of desperation, but I really don't know what else I could have done. If there is a better way I would like to learn.
T 10 years, M 4 years, both 28 years old 7/3/2013 - W wanted D, we attempted to reconcile 7/20/2013 - discovered W's EA, attempted to reconcile 8/24/2013 - W told me she wanted D, filed papers
