Because she owed over 100k in student loan debt that we were paying interest on I told her that if she quit her job it would be financial suicide and I wouldn't stay with her since she would be torpedoing us. She never forgave me for saying that.
How might you have handled this differently?
And another question, do you equate work with only those things that produce income in realtime?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
