It's not uncommon for there to be discrepancies in what gets reported in sexual abuse. We're all different people and what we want from R is very different, threats made will have more impact on some and not others.
I'm sure 25 said this but just because he's wasn't convicted doesn't mean he's not guilty. I don't know what happened but if it walks like a duck...
How do you want your girls to see their mother? Keep in mind that their feelings about themselves will be greatly influenced by how you interact with your W and the respect you show or don't show her.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss