If anyone, anyone had my 10 year old child and didn't answer their phone, I would be concerned.

If I found out that they weren't answering out of spite, they would never have my child on their own again. Don't use children to get a point across.

D13 isn't old enough to understand.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss