Personally I think that you should start mediation with him and only talk about finances through mediation. That is what I think anyway There's a few on this board who's spouses still live with them and they have stopped cooking them meals, doing their washing, etc. I wouldn't say h*ll no to him, just be pleasant. Say sorry you can't cook him dinner tonight as you're going out. Then go out, to your mum's or a friends but just don't be in when he gets home. Time to show him what he's missing and as hard as it sounds start living your life without him in it. This makes them sit up and think and he may realise what he's done to you. I'm afraid to say that any negative comments thrown your way at the mo are more typical WAS behaviour. You just have to ignore them for now, try and be pleasant with him and only speak positively in front of him. I've been through it all with his family. I've felt that I've lost half a family as well. I still talk to his mum, but we only talk about day to day things now as anything I say to her will be related back to H. I'm so pleased that you're a Christian and you've got faith Letting go and letting God is the hardest thing to do. I had a rough week last week with my parents and I felt like my world was turning upside down. I prayed a heartfelt prayer to God and handed all my problems over to him. When I did that, my life suddenly became calmer and happier. I had a good end of the week, with lots of things put into place with my son We were talking about this in Church this morning and I was saying that the trouble is that you give it all to God, then take it back all the time. If you truly hand it to God, he will provide
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
