This is all typical WAS behaviour. Try and ginore everything he says at the moment, as he doesn't mean any of it. He's just trying to validate to himself why he left you in the first place and feelings that he still has for you. You can't live with someone for X amount of years and not feel anything for them.
TTD, thank you for the clarity.
It is just so hard to hear him say especially when he seems very sure that he means it and that he could say more negative things, but he does not want to hurt my feelings more. I am have been a good wife and friend. His family and friends love me and I have had a very good relationship with his twin sister. They don't know what is going on and I feel like I am losing our family.
He has NEVER been cruel to me in any way. But to hear him say that he does like spending time with me is a knife to my heart. I have to leave him to God and himself.
BTW, after all of that, the H just texted and asked is I could cook dinner as he wants to discuss finances.....Should I say, h#ll no??? Well that is my first reaction.
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