H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Yes K...enjoy the time away from boys. They don't define you , you do. Perhaps one of the best gives H gave me was the realization that I am not defined by him, my marriage or my kids. I am defined by only me.
So instead of missing kids feel some sense of happiness that H is actually taking an interest and that you get to find you again, without any of the societal constructs you have been living within
I agree with KP Enjoy the time away for your boys to do what you want to do It's human to miss them, but when you're on your own you can do want you want when you want Have a long bath, slob about in your pjs in front of the TV with a glass of wine or two I normally make myself a light tea that I eat in front of the TV as well
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I agree with KP and TTD as well. Make the most of the time you've got alone. As much as I'd miss my son, I'd love to have an evening all to myself. My H only does an afternoon or day visit and S13 doesn't sleep over.
You'll be surprised at how much you can find to do when you put your mind to it.
Take care and stay strong.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
I had a fun night last night my boys and I went out to dinner then we went to the drive in then today we are going to go running around the track at the local high school then hopefully back I can come home and take a long nap. :-). Its going to be a good day.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Having a good evening at the driver in with MIL we are about to watch fright night 3 horror movies. I don't know why (besides my MIL wanted someone to come with her ) I came tonight I don't like horror movies at all. So needless to say I won't be sleeping for many nights after tonight LOL.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
lol kelela, Hope you had a good time anyway Keep in touch
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
You sound a lot more positive now