MP, it's all very emotional at the beginning and it feels like your world has just been turned upside down. It will get better, but you need to focus on yourself.
I don't know what to suggest about your H at the moment. It is not right that he has the house as he is the one that is causing all the heartache. However, he is being a bully and needs to be stopped.
Have you got someone who you can speak to in a professional way? Maybe get a mediator involved who can talk between the both of you. I'm sure you can get one through your lawyer.
All the best, take care smile

H47 me48
T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!