Well I let him get to me..... before leaving home he asked me if I had a chance to review the agreement. I responded thst I said we can tslk next weekend remember. He then says I am stalling and proceeds to tell me that he has never liked spending time with, he has not enjoyed vacations with me, and that he has never wanted to be with me.
All I can do now is cry....I am so sorry to keep writing here but how can he say these things to me?
This is all typical WAS behaviour. Try and ginore everything he says at the moment, as he doesn't mean any of it. He's just trying to validate to himself why he left you in the first place and feelings that he still has for you. You can't live with someone for X amount of years and not feel anything for them.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
