No, I cannot afford to buy him out. I have another house that I am paying the mortgage on for my mother. This all [censored] because both of our incomes have given us a comfortable life. He wants me to buy him out I think and is now blaming my mother for using me, but he was the one that said that we should buy a place for her because her health was failing and she didn't have enough retirement to sustain her monthly expenses.
I just sent a message to my mother on this because I now have to make other arrangements or think more about what to do.
Oh God, I love the man that is now missing from my H's body. Why is he being so selfish?
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Me: 44 Him: 51 Married: 9 years Together: 14 years