Every time these things happened with me, it helped me detach further. I love my H but when things come out of his mouth, I let them roll off.
The thing is? To get to the place where if he comes back it's good. If he doesn't? It's good.
Either way, you are in the same place. Continue with your life and your GAL etc etc. this is only one part of the ride. When you ride it again, you know what to expect
