Thank you RL! I am glad your eye work seems to be successful!
Ok, so W was too tired to have her "talk" after work, lots going on "politically", busy, etc. She just wanted to take a bath and then hit bed since she works tomorrow. I expected this as a very high probability event, so no big deal. Totally okay with it. I offered my usual "let me know if you want or need anything" and off I went about my business.
She texts me a little bit later...
"Thank you for telling this (my text to her yesterday). Sorry I didn't respond before now. This is what I was going to say last night "
Here again is what I sent her:
""Hi, I want to make sure you know that I hold no bad feelings or judgments for anything in the past. Clean slate. The past is passed. smile ""
I texted back verifying what she texted me. She meant the same thing I did....
So, seems like she has maybe worked through her grievances/etc she harbored against me?
Any thoughts, comments, translations into "man-speak", Wonka insight, etc., are welcome, as always...
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm