Divorced-not done-But wondering ?

[JJAC2005]

Hey there girl....
nice of you to drop me a note...I was looking for it! ;-)
Well..honestly my weekend could be going better...LOL
I'm working...all WEEKEND.....as I just changed spots for someone on the day shift.
I was thinking of you and the book the past few days.
Glad you enjoyed it...hopefully it puts a new perspective on the word "patience"
Believe me when I say this…it’s the number 1 thing I have had to learn (and am still learning) thru this entire experience….
Here is a good example of being human….or recognizing we are human…with a unique ability to apply reasoning skills to our behaviors and emotions.

You know the rational for leaving it alone……giving it time..….giving it space…..letting things heal over if you will.
All of the detachment helps us way more in the end…but we have to relax enough to allow for that to take place.
On the flip side of that mind-set you tend to get anxious as you don’t know if that letting it be will do anything more than gently increase the distance between you and what our/ your heart truly wants.
You want so badly to speed up that process….this pain you have, hurts like nothing you could have imagined hurting you before. (And its constant)
You want another chance….long for it……dream of it……pray for it…and prepare for it like nothing you have ever done compares to its importance…..and you know without a doubt that if they could…if they only would, take a look at what you/we have discovered….BAM…it would change everything!
Not so easy…and definitely not so fast….we had to come to this learning for a reason….lets take this lesson in and make sure that it’s the life changer that we need it to be.
If they notice…it will really peak their curiosity….if not, it becomes another lesson that they learn from not wanting to know more about loving better…deeper….and stronger than ever before.

Like I was saying I picked up the Love Dare the other day....very interesting that I had that exact same book in my handsonly a few years ago....hmmmm....makes you wonder, nod doesnt it?