Hey Majic: nobody is going to ever totally understand our situations,.. especially from what we write here. When people comment on your post, they are trying to provide help. Remember that whatever tone that persone uses they are trying to Help you. When you feel that someone's comments are not justified, try and clarify without being defensive. To me, you sound very defensive, which feeds right back into your anger issues that you have already admitted are a problem. Even if the anger isssues are not the reason for you marriage problems, this is good life advice. I think your situation has a lot of promise if you want to have your M work out. Good luck!!


Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)