Originally Posted By: MrBond
"I am interested in other's stories relating to the kinds of things that happen when a breakthrough does happen..."

Breakthrough for who? You or your W? You don't understand that there is no magic bullet. It will take awhile for things to sort out.


Not me or my w; just the situation. What does it look like when "things sort out" to an outside observer? Not that it would be the same in every situation. I am just wondering about examples from success stories .. going from limbo to piecing. I mean I don't expect that one day a WAS will walk through the door and want to work on the M. ...

Anyway ... It is just me wanting to look for signs and I shouldn't have expectations...

Thank you for your response


Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)