You know, the schema for how we approach all these things have changed so drastically, Bug.
Take for instance yesterday when H said I will be out Sunday instead of Saturday because S17 got a ride with friends Friday.
All the feelings about "he doesn't want to spend time with me...blah blah" surfaced but I validated those feeling myself then had a chat with me. I said to me, "This is not about you. You are the one who said he should be alone for awhile, you're kind of blowing that one by sleeping with him, but when he takes the space you get crazy? Knock it off." So I did, lol.
I would have never been able to move through the "ya didn't come out, you don't care" part if I hadn't been able to recognize where it came from and acknowledge the feelings and let them go
