The next time your H treats you that way tell him, "I will not be bullied. I told you I will meet with you in a few days and that is when I will meet with you." Do not leave the house and go to a hotel, if somebody has to go it should be him. He can threaten all he wants but you waiting a few days is not going to make the situation worse, maybe emotionally due to his treatment of you but not legally.
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13