Hey, NQ. As promised, reading back through your posts, what pops out for me? Special Constable - you must have watched The Thin Blue Line!
Seriously, though, I think you have the right attitude and focus for a tough situation. You know what to say (and not say!) when people inquire. You know to focus your energy on yourself and your son.
Keep it, up, pace yourself for the marathon. Most importantly, stay true to yourself and keep discovering more about you by using this process and this time. I never thought any good would really come of my situation, but I'm starting to enjoy being able to put myself first for a change. And for some much needed changes!