I started to write a post about how hopeful I was when I started this thread; I felt like I was on the verge of a breakthrough. But not much has changed... I am interested in other's stories relating to the kinds of things that happen when a breakthrough does happen...

But instead of getting an answer to that question, I expect to get responses about how I need to let go of expectations LOL... I need to detach

Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)