MrBond. You are right. I have to be strong, but I didn't accept his apology. I was quiet. I just didn't want to engage in any discussion with him.

5 years ago, I was an angry person, I yelled and screamed at everything, work, family, marriage. I was dealing with huge issue after the death of my baby sister, but I got an IC and have been able channel my anger in other ways over the years since.

I have never been married before, but I do have a strong personality. It's just that with my H, especially since getting help after the death of my sister, I don't engage in arguments or try to avoid them.

I am a consulting manager by day and most folks know me as a strong and competent manager, very direct. I guess my home life is different.


OLD THREAD:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2380569#Post2380569

Me: 44
Him: 51
Married: 9 years
Together: 14 years