" though all are top heavy on the action hero aspect."
Who says? Look at Daniel Craig as James Bond for example. Have you noticed his swagger, his confidence and his "I don't care what others think" attitude? That's what your W has been begging from you.
Guys I admire? Lord Bingham (see the article in Intelligent Life magazine on him), Steve Albini, our French neighbor. "
But the problem is that those people you admire are intellectuals who don't "inspire" women. Steve Albini isn't even married. Model yourself on those traits from men who make them distinctly men. Look at Hugh Jackman for example. He's extremely talented, focused AND has been happily married for 18 years.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.