It's been a while, my court date is coming soon. Mid oct, i told her i wont retrieve papers and i decided i cant live with her. I asked her to talk many times before but she just keeps it all in her self. Spills the dirt anytime she gets labile. Suddenly she is letting my son for 3 days as the days are getting closer to the due date. She is just listening to her lawyer. I am just detaching my self and she is the one who texts or email, I just follow what she says. She showed all the cases of accusation of me not clean in my apartment, son getting sick when he is with me for 2 days. You name it she makes an excuse. it really hurts that she is so adamant and short sighted. Still in the survival defensive mode.


M - 39W- 38
M - 4 yr,Date-4 mths
Son - 2 yr day care
S - 9/12
Divorced- 10/10/13
Visits with son other week
Working on myself & son,co-parent,change,assertive,alpha/beta, entrepeurneur,care,heal,centered