"This is why everyone is advising you to take your time, Lil G. The best things in life are worth waiting for. Just enjoy your life and see what happens. H is in the fog. I'm not surprised he hasn't figured out you're the prize yet. When he does, you make him chase you."
I LOVE this advice...we LBS's get so caught up in "chasing" after our spouse that we forget...we are a pretty good catch, too. This is GREAT advice! Definitely helped me today! Enjoy your life...forget about your spouse for a bit and remember that you are important and special!