I am 49, my husband is 51. On Labour Day he blindsided me with the basic mid-life crisis jargon... something has always been missing (27 years together 26 of them married), I want someone who I want to say I love you to every day, and have happiness. We are just two different personalities, I asked how did you stay with me so long... he says.. I am a kind person. I asked him to take some time to consider what he was proposing... and to let me absorb the many more comments... its been 4 days. And.. life seems the same-ish... I don't know what to do.