Originally Posted By: LeftCoastLBH

[*]I've realized I'm a "fixer," and not being able to fix this is driving me nuts.


Right there with ya on that. It's hardest for us fixers to put down the tools for a while.

Originally Posted By: LeftCoastLBH

[*]The counterintuitive nature of DBing drives me nuts—I worry that I am not doing enough and that my wife is expecting something from me that I'm not giving her.


Definitely had those feelings, and that worry still arises. But, it seems that the best thing I've given my W is time and space.

Originally Posted By: LeftCoastLBH

Good news for the day: a clean bill of health from the cardiologist this morning!


That is great. Focus on the good stuff!


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MH