Well, when I get home, the Husband tells me he is sick and that he does not want to talk about anything and wants a truce... At this point, I haven't said a word to him. We have dinner, I go to my room. He comes into my bedroom and then announces that he wants me to read the separation agreement tomorrow while he is at reserve duty and that if I do not read it then he will see that as an act of aggression and stalling and he will move out and work through the lawyers.

I feel so threatened. He is being so mean to me and I went to my room. He then knocks on my bedroom door and I open the door and he proceeds to tells me that he that if I do not work with him, then he will move out and it will not end well for me if we go through the lawyers. I haven't done anything and I feel so powerless and devalued that I just cried. I do not know what I did, I did nothing, I said nothing. He said he wanted a truce tonight, but he attacked me after I went to bed.

I did not ay anything and I did nothing to provoke his attack. I just came to bed. I even ordered dinner for him.

Why is this happening? I am so mad, but there is nothing I can say. He is attacking me.....


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Me: 44
Him: 51
Married: 9 years
Together: 14 years