Then get outside and work with your hands after work!
I actually am getting out and working with my hands when I should be working on paid work. I do contract work from home. So when I start working on paid work, and I get distracted thinking about w, I go out and work in the yard and come back to get work done. But i need to be more productive. I might try working from a coffee shop. This is my second job. I a teacher on break between terms until the end of the month. The teaching job is a much better distraction from w and I look forward to fall term starting.
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)