Me 10 months on. Positve agenda.

[hotwheelsaust]

Thanks Mr Bond and F. I do get what you are saying Mr Bond, but, I think that after NC for so long, me contacting the W for having a friend (whatever type) driving the car will be detrimental to the whole sitch. I can quite truthfully say, her reply will simply be "I can allow anyone to drive the car". It also could lead to her rushing the solicitor and asset selling. Which at this stage, hasn't replied to my letter in over six weeks.

I don't at this time of my sitch want to force any asset selling, so I need to be careful of what I say or do. If we go back a week or two when I wrote about the bosses talk, I could simply imagine the W saying I am crazy going on about someone else driving our car.
In all honesty, if the friend has an accident, then the W or friend will be liable for any excess charges and costs.
While I don't like the situation about the friend driving, it is something that goes on with many thousands of people daily (driving someone else's car). Myself included.
The insurance down here may be different to what is in your country. Our car insurance is in our names, but covers any driver. You only have to advise the insurance if another driver uses the car more than 12 times a year. The insurance for both vehicles is renewed in December. I had already discussed and checked with the insurance company how to separate the cars and their individual insurances.

I suppose my comment was more to do with how the friendship is coming along, rather than what do I do.