I told a GF recently, if H becomes dissatisfied again, I think I'll pack him his suitcase, walk him to the door and say "have a good life". I don't think I'd go through this again.
Agreed...I think that is one of the compassion and boundary things we learn, for ourselves, and ultimately, them.
But we never know until we are there, do we? That is another lesson taken.
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
