So my suspicions have been confirmed. She has been delaying us telling the kids about our D because she is questioning her decision and perhaps wants to work on our R. I strongly feel the kids have a right to know about the D - after all, they've been in limbo this entire time too, and continue to be - but I think the best approach for now is just to continue to give her time and space to think.

-PM


M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds

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