Originally Posted By: MyPain
Thank you. I feel like I am making concessions by agreeing to talk about an agreement.

Here is what I propose to say:

"I am sorry that you are taking this step toward dissolving our marriage. And I understand that you want to quickly get a separation agreement in place. Right now, I just need a few days, so can we discuss next weekend so that I can be prepared to work with you."


Sounds good to me. Your validating his POV while also giving yourself time to gather your thoughts.

Hopefully one of the vets on here will also come along and give their opinion on it as well.

Stay strong.


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks