Thank you UR, Angela, CP... smile

CB- you are onto something, I am pretty darn sure her ACTIONS are saying something. And I am a "word" or literal person too, so I can see how maybe W is reluctant to SAY anything until she knows for sure her decision. She knows, consciously or otherwise, that I am a literal person and doesn't want to give me false hope, or fears me thinking all is well and start having expectations (ala Sandi2), since she does have her own work to continue to do. So I keep note of the actions, the demeanor, less so the words, though I do want to hear them, lol.

FY- whenever you fly yourself out here...it might be pretty even because though I have the altitude acclimation advantage, you seem the long term bicyclist, so your legs have the advantage... smile

FC- I agree with you, and because I am seeing improvement, effort from her, slow as I may think it is, it IS movement. That's why the expiration date (W wanted the summer to think about it) has passed and I am not yet heading to L office. Just sitting and seeing what happens. I like FY's response.

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In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus

Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm