As Cadet and Accuray said, your M is gone. Too many people on these forums get stuck because they're trying to cling to a M that is simply dead and gone, never to return. DB'ing is about letting go of that old M, and making yourself the best person you can be with the hopes of maybe attracting your spouse back some day into a new relationship and eventually a new marriage.
That is a light bulb moment for me AS It has finally sunk in that that is what I must do. Crikey, how many months have I dden on here? lol. I think that it is the way you said it AS, it makes complete sense now, thank you
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
It has finally sunk in that that is what I must do. Crikey, how many months have I dden on here? lol. I think that it is the way you said it AS, it makes complete sense now, thank you 
