I don't want to get too far into details or bashing her, but what I'm beginning to see now is that I really wasn't that happy being with her.
After BD, WAS's tend to rewrite history so that they only remember bad things in the M. LBS's do the opposite, BD makes them put the WAS on a pedestal and remember nothing but good things about the M. Eventually the fog clears for the LBS and they remember the M and their spouse wasn't perfect. So you're getting there now, just take care not to let it cloud your judgment and make you think your W is some kind of witch, because that will detract yourself from the DB'ing path of owning your mistakes and becoming the best spouse you can possibly be. Remember, your journey is about YOU.
