I think I was doing good yesterday. I got more sleep last night One thing which still bothers me a lot is that H texted a lot using his iphone. I guess he talked to the OW online. Everytime when he was texting or checking his messages, he stepped to the other room or he turned off the iphone's screen immediately if I was around. He completely closed me out. I know he needs space and time, and I didn't mean to spy on him, but still these behaviors hurt me a lot.
My H used to do the same thing. If it was someone he was ok with me knowing about he'd tell me who he was texting, if he didn't say anything and turned his phone around so only he could see I knew it was OW. And he'd try and "play nice" by leaving his phone on the table if we were out someone so I would know he wasn't texting or calling. The only thing is he wouldn't do it until after 11pm and he never spoke to OW after that time. Guess he thought I wouldn't notice that.
Try to keep up your PMA and definitely try to relax and get plenty of sleep. If you're tired, you'll get stressed so much easier.
Stay strong.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
