Yes, I am about your situation, but it does not mean you cannot recover your marriage. You wouldn't want me to blow smoke up your backside just to make you feel good, would you? I took the time to read through all of your post strings yesterday before I responded. Just my opinion, but without a long history together and no kids to bond you, coupled with her actions, I really don't see how you will recover you R without going dark. I know you don't like to hear that, but it doesn't change my opinion.
I really do wish you the best, I know from first hand experience just how hard it is.
