I think I was doing good yesterday. I got more sleep last night One thing which still bothers me a lot is that H texted a lot using his iphone. I guess he talked to the OW online. Everytime when he was texting or checking his messages, he stepped to the other room or he turned off the iphone's screen immediately if I was around. He completely closed me out. I know he needs space and time, and I didn't mean to spy on him, but still these behaviors hurt me a lot.